I know I havent physically lost anybody or h2b so I shouldnt be moaning but I need to get this off my chest.\n\nA set of our married freinds have just split up. She was to be my MOH (we'll call her G) and he was to be an usher (we'll call him M). M has done something awful which has resulted in G wanting a divorce, I have spoke to her and there definitley no getting back together.\nIm totally gutted that they have separated as they seemed perfect but M has ruined it.\n\nAnyway time for my selfish rant:-\nFeel as if I wont be able to enjoy the wedding now, Im sure it will go fine but you know that way you just want all your friends and family there and also want them to be genuinley happy but this wont be the case now!\nI was surprised but G said she still wants to be my MOH but may have to leave early - after the dinner, she said she could cope with M being there but apparently he has said to G if she goes he's not! M's Mum has also been invited to evening party as she is close to h2b's mum.\nSo basically G will not be there in the evening to dance about stupid with me. She's my only friend:cry:\n\nThankfully they arent making us choose which would be worse but I know H2b would be gutted if M didnt go.\n\nI shouldnt but Im starting to hate M. He's ruined his marriage and feel like he's ruined my wedding day. \n\nG & M are not telling the main reason for the split. Im the only one thats heard G's side, everybody else has only heard M's side and all I keep hearing is "poor M" "oh he's so devostated". Everyone seems to think G is the bad one and Im so fed up hearing it.