I have an issue. A close friend is sorting out Ben's stag do. He is planning a roleplaying event and tavern night which is really cool apart from one thing. The girls.\n\nThey are planning for one of our mutual friends to strip in character as a law enforcing officer and then stop at the last minute. The other girls in the roleplaying club are also going. All that is apart from me.\n\nI'm not sure why I have such a problem with this. I am 38 and they are all 24 at the oldest I think. So the age could be threatening I guess but I think it is more the fact that they are people I know. How many stag nights have one or more of the brides friends stripping and getting drunk with them? What I can't understand is that I wouldn't offer to do it for a friend in the first place. They see it as a bit of fun and I am sure it is but I really don't want to see them at the wedding after the image of them stripping in front of Ben is in my head.\n\nThe daft thing is I wouldn't mind a stranger stripping - I can see the harmless fun in that but not someone I know and have to see socially. \n\nIt is not about trust, I trust Ben and the person concerned but it is about basic courtesy I suppose. I just wouldn't do it.\n\nI've tried to say something but the person organising it seems to think I am overeacting and being jealous but it isn't jealousy, you just don't do it. Am I wrong here?\n\nBen thinks I am being unfair to the girl in question as she wouldn't do anything with him but again, this isn't the point. The point is I would never even so much as dream, even if I had an awesome body, strip for any of my friends stag nights leaving the poor bride-to-be sat at home whilst they all get drunk.\n\nI have to add - Ben has offered to cancel the entire thing and promises he'd do nothing I was unhappy with. It is not him organising it so it isn't his fault. I just hate coming across as a jealous old crone which is what it feels like. Ben says he doesn't mind which just made me cringe as in my insecure brain that means he thinks it is ok to do it.\n\nSo what would you do? Let them get on with it knowing nothing will happen and that they all think it is just fun or make a fuss and demand the women stay away? I don't want to upset anyone and like them all but just prefer it not to happen. I can't say how much I feel sick at the thought of a friend being all sexy and stripping in front of my future husband. Fun maybe to them but a bit wrong to me sat at home.