I have found the whole prospect of planning a wedding 19 months away quite daunting but today I took my first few steps and am really getting excited and into it now.\nToday I phoned the registrar and they provisionally booked my date, I have confirmed with the venue the time of my ceremony and it all seems so real now. I have just bought wedding insurance and feel a bit more at ease now. I guess the next step will be looking at dresses and deciding a colour theme. I like the idea of gold or metallic and white, and I love candles, metallic sprayed twigs or feathers for centre pieces. My h2b is happy I am on this forum as I don't have to keep on waffling about things to him constantly;)!