am getting married in 2 months! Like evryone on here emotions are high, and really looking forward to a good day.\n\nI am one of those brides that are having issues with the guest list. I have gone over it a dozen times and have not left anyone out, sent the invitation out 3 weeks ago. However, now I think I may have left someone out unintentionally.\n\nThis person: she used to be a very good friend of mine, she was a house mate for a year and a half before I got engaged (how i met her). After the engagement she stopped talking to me, behaved strangely and ignored me in passing. Apparently, due to the fact that she saw me as a sister and was too upset to talk to me again because I never asked her to be a bridesmaid. When she told me this, I told her my decisions for our wedding has no reflection on our friendship - I am having a budget wedding, keeping number and costs low, but that it would mean the world if she came to the wedding. This wasn't a good enough answer for her and over the last year we've not spoken that much at all.\n\nRecently, she has started being very friendly with me again and has started talking about coming to the wedding. However, I have already given invites out, and I think she might be fishing for one now as other mutual friends are invited. I have asked for advice from those friends, they have said she was looking forward to going to the wedding and having a good night out with her partner. I am almost certain that if she doesn't get an invite she will never speak to me again, and I won't see her ever again.\n\nShall I invite this person? I feel like a terrible bride for saying it would mean a lot for her to be there at the beginning when we were good friends - but now a lot has changed, and its been a year since then. Shall I send her an invite to keep her happy? I have thought about sending her an evening invitation.\n\nAlso - I have now made arrangements for an after party celebration in our house, for those travelling far, however I have forgotten to send this information with the invites. Do you think its okay if i send those people a quick email/message about it? or should I send another set of formal invitations again?