Flowers For Sister In Law To Be?

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    MrsWalker2be

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    :unsure:This is a difficult one!

    And a question for you girls...............

    Well ....................My fiancees brother's fiancee (complicated), i dont really see eye to eye with her, never go out together, never go shopping togather............ she is a nice person, just not my sort of person i would socialise with. (dont want to sound bitchy)

    However do you think to save arguement with his family do you think i should buy a crosage for her for my big day?????


    She has no role on the day................but what do you think?


    xxxx

    p.s.....i dont wanna sound bitchy lol x
     
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    juliak

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    Ooh difficult one. Are there any others in the party which aren't taking an active part but are having corsages?
    Have you got a price for the corsages yet?
    Does your h2b have any opinions about the situation?
    xxx
     
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    MrsBoucher2B2012

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    I have the same problem my h2b brothers wife, she isnt the sort of person i usually mix with (very long story for another time). She doesnt have a part in the wedding. H2b brother is going to be best man. Now do i get her something and try to keep her sweet or do nothing and hope she doesnt make a scene? i feel your pain.

    And you dont sound bitchy at all.
     
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    juliak - no one else is wearing crosages, who is active in the wedding! only people who are, are mothers, and my best friends who are both doing readings!! h2b, doesnt care lol! (he is easy going). the crosages are about 10-15 each!

    Dani - glad i am not the only one with this problem!! (sorry)! h2b brother is best man (well at the mo he is) but might change as they have not been speaking in about 3 months now! cos of his brother saying horrible things about me!!! grrrrrrrrr...........................but if they are not speaking by sept, he is chosing someone else! so if he choses someone else his brother wont have no role in the wedding!

    Exaclty dani, do you get them one to keep them shssssh, or do you not!

    h2b brother and fiancee were supposed to be getting married this year, but cancelled it. and theere was no mention of me getting anything!!!


    ooooooooooo what to do! xx
     
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    I think that if no-one else is having one, that isn't directly involved in your day, then there's no reason why you should provide her with one. I don't think there's anything wrong with that and I wouldn't worry about a scene being caused, she wouldn't be able to do that without making herself look very silly!
    I don't think you're being bitchy at all, you havn't said anything derogatory about her, so don't worry about that!
    I think perhaps this is one of those situations that arise directly due to weddings and as brides we want to please everybody, unfortunately we can't. Have you got other good friends coming that are doing nothing particular on the day, if so, are you getting them corsages too? If not then I would completely forget about the whole situation, not get her one and concentrate on other things (and put the money towards something else)!
    Anyway, i'm not talking to you again until you put some pics up, only joking!!!!!!!
    Hope this helps! xxx
     
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    ha ha! thanks juliak!!



    no one else is at all, non of my friends! piccies..........................ooooo piccies of what?? lol x
     
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    Mrsg2b2011

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    Yes totally agree with Julia, don't get her anything. Its not bitchy but as she is not a major role of the day she shouldn't expect it so I just wouldn't mention it to her if I was you.
    Hope your h2b & his bro sort things out xxx
     
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    juliak

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    Well MrsWalker there are different threads for different pics, i.e. show us your jewellery, show us your dresses etc or you could just start your own thread on your own planning with everything on, then you can just add to it as you go along! We all love pictures and details and everything really, think it's been named wedding porn now, we nosy ladies just can't get enough!!!!!
     
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    Mrsg2b2011

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    Yep wedding porn wedding porn & yet more wedding porn we need it!!! :D xxx
     
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    I go with the others and ay no need to get her anything. He's not doing anything useful and you're already going to be feeding her so that's enough :)
     
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    made up my mind! i know what ia m going to do! xxx
     
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    Coolio, glad we helped. We did didn't we?? :) xxx
     
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    Just to double check Jaime-Lee, what are you going to do? xxx
     
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    well....................................nope not getting her one! she hasnt offered to help me with the organising! also i am paying for her little girls dress for my:lol: flower girl!


    oooooooooooooooh what a bitch i am!!! x
     
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    No you're not! You're realistic. SHe's not in the immediate wedding party so all is fine :mellow: We support you anyway :lol:
     
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    yea totally right!!!

    thanks girls! xx
     
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    Good am glad you have decided not too!! Especially as you are paying for the dress aswell! xxx
     
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    You are definitely NOT being a bitch. I think you've made the right decision and that you should completely banish it from your mind now, one less thing to worry about love.
    I'm glad we helped a little xxx
     
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    well if she kicks off.......................i am giving her allllll ya names! lol xxx ;) :lol:
     
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    I don't mind Jaime-Lee.....i'll stand behind Poppleminster! xxx
     
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