I just read this article on OffBeat Bride\n\n[url="http://offbeatbride.com/2012/10/hair-color-judgements?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=facebook"]What happens when you're invited to a wedding, but your non-traditional hair color ISN'T?[/url]\n\nIt raises an interesting question! Just how far should people go to ensure guests conform to the wedding day style? I find it completely fine to make requests about outfits - eg white is reserved for the bride, or specifying a colour scheme.\n\nBut I find it shocking that blue hair was seen as so unacceptable. It's not like she was even a bridesmaid and would feature heavily in formal photos! Where do you draw the line between what is acceptable and not acceptable? Should larger BMs be forced to lose weight? Should people with bad teeth get them fixed?! If someone didn't accept me for who I was then I wouldn't want to know them!