There is being obsessed about weddings and being really obsessed about weddings. So obsessed that you manage to completely miss all the signs of anything else going on in life. Like missing periods and ouchy boobs and somewhat irrational mood swings (one minute loving everyone the next too nervous to leave the house), with no good reason. Add in being REALLY annoyed that the wedding diet seems to result only in putting on weight and an extreme dose of lethargy and most people would have sussed out that something wasn't quite normal. Me? I went to the doctor in a right state with kidney ache, bloating and not understanding why the hell my already ample bosom has decided to turn into porn star sized jugs (believe me, this is NOT a good thing when you have to carry them round all day). \n\nAfter a referral to the hospital I had antibiotics and a scan only instead of finding anything nasty you can guess the rest :o\n\nWedding now back to next years original date!